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True Confession: I don’t know who got me pregnant – My husband or my boyfriend?

By on September 16, 2012

People should not judge me but help me understand what I’ve gotten myself into and how to come out of these complications. Pls I can’t disclose my name for obvious reasons.

Let me just go straight to the point. I’m a good wife to my husband and he loves me too. We are both sex freaks, sometimes we even make love in the kitchen while am cooking since we live alone. That’s how sweet our marriage was. But not any more.

Over four years into our union no “evidence” and pressures from my family and his were getting unbearable so I took to a colleague’s advice. I started dating a young guy but this guy always insist on using condom on me, claiming he can only have direct sex with a woman that is ready to get pregnant for him.

I told him I was ready and we started doing skin-to-skin for about three (3) months before my husband finally called me one weekend. Meanwhile, I didn’t know my colleague has told this my boyfriend some things about my personal life, especially my husband’s “inability” to impregnate me.

Back to my husband: he called me and said he was ready for us to go see a doctor so we could know what is wrong as I had earlier suggested. I was happy because it would help us get medical help if something was actually wrong with either of us.

But I got much more than I bargained for when the doctor came back with the results of the tests that were carried out on us. He said my husband and I are perfectly ok and even congratulated my husband. Congratulation for what? I asked the doctor.

He said my husband has done it, I was already six weeks pregnant! I was filled with joy and my husband too. We celebrated the good news with several rounds of passionate sex when we got home that day. I’m now five months heavy.

I’ve stopped seeing my boyfriend and also resigned from work. Somehow my colleague told this guy I was pregnant and he came looking for me in our house. He said I ran away with his pregnancy, bla bla bla, saying I should do the honourable thing and give him his baby after the baby is delivered. Since that day, I’ve not been myself.

He now calls me almost every afternoon to ask how my baby is doing and other rubbish. My husband is beginning to suspect that something is bothering me but I’ve been taking care of his side. However, my BIG problem is this guy. I don’t think he’s the owner of my pregnancy.

After all, the doctor said nothing is wrong with my husband and I believe my husband actually got me pregnant but I can’t tell him about this guy, it will destroy our marriage.

I need people’s advise on how to handle this guy once and for all. Please help me!!!!

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  • sasa

    ,tell ur husband the truth, and if the guy continues to claim the child, then wait for the child to be born, after then go for DNA test to confirm the real father of the child. but u women u did a stupid act to be frank with u, God should have mercy on u.

  • Kash

    What on earth wld have made u start sleeping outside ur matrimony? U said u guys are sex freeaks but I guess u’re a nympho. Some of u girls are so spoilt that u don’t consider sleeping outside ur relationship as a wrong act. If I were that guy I wld call ur husband directly & explain to him cos u’re not worthy to be a wife. Useless women !

  • Kash

    What on earth wld have made u start sleeping outside ur matrimony? U said u guys are sex freeaks but I guess u’re a nympho. Some of u girls are so spoilt that u don’t consider sleeping outside ur relationship as a wrong act. If I were that guy I wld call ur husband directly & explain to him cos u’re not worthy to be a wife. Useless women !

    • kkk

      i am beginning to believe that one man cannot satisfy a woman,if d thing don dey scratch like this

  • peter

    Why didn’t u kill yourself,u are an idiot for confessing this,why didn’t u look for an advice wen u are enjoying sex with ur husband and the so call boyfrnd…come over I’ll gv u ur second child,bush meat,prostitute.

  • john

    Go to hell foolish prostitute…u’ll reap wat u saw idiot

  • K.Jonez

    LWKMD u guys re so funny & mean! O gal u don hear am na, as d fuck take sweet u na so the problems. U let d sex get d best of u now you asking for advice from us. Why u no ask us before u begin fuck d so-called boyfriend?! Sorry yea, go meet King Solomon..we no get dat kain wisdom..pele

  • bBayoLeo 4r

    Please people should not crucify her,what as happened as happen,my advise is that don’t tell ur husband yet wait till d child is born then tell ur boyfriend 2 come forward 4 DNA test,if after d child is his own then u can now move forward and confess 2 ur husband and if he still love u,u can continue with him but if not then go and marry d father of ur child,in all dis tell God 2 4give u if u have offended him,bcos d way we judge is not d way God judge,u don’t knw whether d man as some reasons or secret kept away 4rm u,so tell God u are sorry 2 only u have since if u are not any man or woman,pls relax ur self and enjoy life,but close 2 God,God we continue 2 be with u.

    • Zion

      u are correct

  • Jonathan

    Oh why didnt u wait for God’s time. Why did u take the advice of ur friends? why didnt u pray to God for fruth of womb. Woman this is very serious coz when u tell ur Husband of ur unfaithfullness, if he didnt divoice u then he will never trust u again.i m sorry Just go into prayer and fasting for God to show the way out.this is a lesson for others to learn.

  • miller

    U b real okoko…u tell ur boyfriend say u wan serious wit am say make e no use condom, d guy want serious rltnshp n d baby don enter, giv am em baby no b ur husband own.

  • CHUKS

    You walked yourself into trouble by being unfaithful. Just confess to your husband and ask God to forgive, and do DNA and find out the real person that impregnanted you.

  • Haram

    I strongly feel there’s enough bed space for 2 in hell. I have been looking for free pussy all this while u did not bring ur smelling yansh to me to hv a feel of what those two gentle men hv bnenjoying now u want a honest advice abi. My advice for u is to prepare for the next flight to hell. Ashawo jati jati.

  • Emeka,ilorin

    I understand and feel for my dear,though d’reason why u got into d’relationship was b/c of ur childlessness,but u wouldn’t have done that hence u both love each other.And again,u made d’guy believe that what u needed from him is d’baby,so if d’guy demands for his baby u will not blame him.Now my advice!summon courage and confess to ur husband and together u will now know d’next thing to do.Honestly,if u don’t do that d’guy might walk up to ur hubby and do that,which makes d’whole thing worst,conclude in ur mind that even if ur hubby divorces u,at least u are free from that guilt,instead of leaving with it ur whole life.

  • mine

    Go 4 DNA test afta birth of d child,and plz don’t tell ur hubby now if u want 2 save ur marriage…

  • RR

    Tell the young gentleman that you did a DNA test. Wait a week or so and tell him the results returned and that he is not the father.

  • Shanosky

    Hmmm i cant seem to believe this story is real. Sounds like somthing someone just cook up for our reading pleasure. For the benefit of the doubt i ll say that she should just go ahead and give birth to the child…..then it will be clear who owns the child.

  • http://www.facebook.com/milliondeeinvestment Ogbonna Silvers

    As tradition demands all over the world, the man who pays a womans dowry owns the baby she bear during the marriage…the guy in question has no claim of ur child, its you as a woman who says who is ur childs father. dnt disturb urself worrying abt him he cant do anything with u or ur child. Dont either tell ur husband, it could be two of u are not compartible…

  • metricmoshe

    You don’t deserve any advice

  • metricmoshe

    Tell your husband and boy friend that they are both fathers to your child . You surely have guts to go public.eh.

  • Vitalis Obichere

    You dont deserve any advise. You will never be faithful to your husband or anyone. You should tell this story to your husband. He deserves to know the nymphomaniac slut he was unfortunate to marry. If he is foolish enough to keep you after your confession , then count yourself lucky.

  • samuel

    If you are sure the pregnancy is nt ur boyfriends’ then u should both go for a DNA test and prove it to him, then hopefully he can get off your back. Since u confessed to being a sex freak, I do pray you keep ur itching pussy only to ur husband alone, going forward dats if u can get out of this deep shit.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Isah-Isyaku-Makeri/100001832821546 Isah Isyaku Makeri

    If truth is anything to go by, she better tell her husband the truth and plead for forgivenes. Because if She refused telling him the truth he will still know and it will be to bad and late. Unfaithfull woman

  • BONA

    Its a pity dat ur infidelity has lead u into this mess. Just confess to ur hussy and then go for a DNA test. Its a lesson he may forgive u no one does not sin. Among all those condemming u who among them has not commited sin. Ask d Lord 4 forgiveness.

  • joo

    simple kill ur boyfriend if u wanna save ur marraige

  • lName Lucky

    Pls be your self. Don’t panic, relax or you will lose your baby. Right now give and take the only thing you have is that unborn baby. That is why I said relax. The mistake have been made. Tell that boy who knew you were married to relax, wait if the baby would look like him. If he refused to relax tell him to go to hell. Then tell your husband with serious crying apology to forgive you but that the baby belongs to him. Note: your husband must know for you to have peace wheather now or after birth. But my stake is RELAX. And take care of your self if you love that baby

  • Illuminatti!

    You’ve made a serious big mistake by telling your friends about your personal life and inability of your husband! Now she’s unfaithful to you after she advised you to sleep with a boyfriend! You’re in deep shit but the only thing you can do is call your husband attention about this to prevent future problem for you and the unborn child. If he still loves you he will accept all your mistake and have you back but if not I wish you best with the new guy but you have to learn how to be faithful with your spouse!

  • jambaskkie

    Jst tke a bold step by tellin ur husband,coz if he finds out on his own,he wouldn’t tke it litely…so u jst have to face the concequencies sha,tell God to tke control den confess

  • TEE

    What part of the country are u from? Some traditions in this country dont permit what u did, do u know it can lead to sudden death. Talk 2 ur husband if God wants the marriage to still go on ur husbands reaction will determine and what ever comes out of the DNA….

    • kk

      what has tradition got to do with this,pshewww wake up and smell the coffee igbotic answer

  • maxwell
  • kolao

    Nobody is perfect,you realy show your love for your husband by saving your marriage and shame of your husband if eventually known by outsiders,also that nobody is reliable especially your friend.My sugestion is to tell your husband and wait for DNA to be carried out to really know unthenticated father.

  • paddy

    Arrange for the guy to secretely go and see Doc. for a DNA test to ascertain the true owner of the pregnancy.

  • paddy

    Arrange with the guy to secretely go and see Doc. for a DNA test to ascertain the true owner of the pregnancy.

  • pharouq

    u actually said it u got wat u bargained for…..bla bla bla….. life is what happens to u wen u r busy thinkin and planning for other things

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/7WSFK5PI5BEASV7SPT3M4VLQPE Emmanuel

    i think your husband will do u in front while your boyfriend will do you at back because in your case it take three to tangle not two.foolish woman.

  • ogbongele

    LIES LIES AND……..LIES!! *yawning*

  • steph

    hello dear, i undst ur story and i no dat it would really hurt bt the main thing is dat the deed has already bin done and there is no going back….so the best thing for u to do right now doh it’s nt going to be easy is to tell ur husband about this ghy and everything dat inspired btween u 2, bt srry 2 say am really dissapointed in u, as a house wife dis act could be really hard to forgive and 4get, so dn’t feel bad if ur husband decides to send u packin!!

  • NIKE

    see what you have gotten yourself into, you are a disgrace to womenfolk. its not easy some would say four years though long but not too long that means you can not stand the test of time more so you have not confirmed medically to know if your husband is sterile before your infidelity. well my advise is to go for DNA test and wait for the show of shame

  • abbey

    call the guy and sit him down,then both of u should meet any doctor that u did not know and the guy didn’t know 4 DNA test; then the result we speak for both of u to decide….Gooday.