RMD vs Linda Ikeji: RMD takes himself too seriously, he is a bully

By on July 9, 2012

On Saturday, on Twitter, I got involved in a long running debate about a post that appeared on Miss Linda Ikeji’s blog relating to the one time actor and now Delta State Commissioner for Arts and Culture, Richard Mofe-Damijo.

The post itself was all of 3 lines which began by wishing him a happy 51st birthday and ended by informing her readers, rightly or wrongly, that he had moved into a new mansion which ‘is said to have cost’ N250m.

It turns out that, beneath the cool exterior of Mr Mofe-Damijo lies a prima donna as he then took to twitter and in a series of tweets, began by ‘warning’ Ms Ikeji to stop spreading lies about him and then for good measure, he left us in no doubt as to what he thought was a ‘dignified career path’ and what wasnt. He was also sure to let us know that he would ordinarily not ‘dignify her type’ with a response but was only doing so because he had been inundated with phone calls from his friends asking what was going on.

From his tweets, it was clear his beef was with the value Ms Ikeji had placed on his home although he didnt quite tell us what the supposed real value is (probably recognising that that would be a lose lose battle for him). It is my personal opinion that the Commissioner is rather silly and takes himself too seriously. 10 years ago, acting in Nigeria was looked down upon and actors were very easily referred to as ‘their type’. I am unclear as to what Mr Mofe-Damijo is benchmarking as a ‘dignified career path’ compared to Ms Ikeji’s gossip blogging – his acting which brought him fame and fortune or his current government job?

But let’s leave that and move on to something more important.

In the course of the debates, I was sure to defend Ms Ikeji, not because I have ever met her or even read her blog (I dont), but because I think there is a more important principle at stake.

It is also my personal opinion that the greatest words ever put down on paper by a politician in any country is the American Bill of Rights, specifically the 1st Amendment. They are generally attributed to James Madison who had been mentored by the incomparable visionary, Thomas Jefferson, a man light years ahead of his time. Madison himself went on to become President and would govern by the rights he had authored and learn to live within its constraints.

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.
The emphasis is mine. Pause and think about the above statement for a minute. Madison wrote those words in 1789 or thereabouts. He went on to become President 20 years later from 1809 to 1817. The man was clearly thinking less about himself and more about the country because enshrining such rights into the constitution is bound to be at best a nuisance for any leader.

Not only was Madison granting the press freedom, by enshrining it in the constitution, he was making it impossible for the government to take that right away as that could only be done by the Supreme Court.

Mr Madison, who was part of the establishment along with his mentor Mr Jefferson, were essentially protecting Americans from the government they were part of. This is a hard concept to grasp. The government was effectively saying ‘look, we dont trust ourselves with power. Our tendency is to always trample over individual liberties especially as we have the guns and money so we want you to be able to at least restrain us. And one of the ways you can do this is by being able to say whatever you want about us without us punishing you for it. You can also have a free press that can investigate us and write whatever they like about us and we wont be able to retaliate against them’.

Like I said, these are hard concepts. As an example, in Nigeria, those who wrote the constitution granted political office holders (themselves) immunity from prosecution and we cannot get them to take it away even after 13 years of democracy. It is not enough that they have the guns and money, they also want to be able to rob us blind and for us not to be able to do anything about it.

When Americans hold their founding fathers in deep awe, it is because of things like these. When those men had a choice between self aggrandizement and selflessness, they went for selflessness 100%.

To the 2nd point – why freedom of speech? Why not freedom to yawn in public? Why did the American founding fathers consider this right so important that they felt the need to enshrine it in the constitution?

The simple answer is that yawning is unlikely to offend anyone and even if it does offend, it is not a right that can be taken away. That is to say, even if you were to yawn in front of a government official who had access to soldiers and money, he cannot take that right away from you if your yawning were to somehow offend him.

But freedom of speech is serious business. Madison and friends knew that the whole point of freedom of speech is that is bound to offend someone from time to time. Without this ability to offend, freedom of speech is infact useless and there would be no point to it. It is fine if I was to say something that offended say a colleague at work. I could easily apologize and we would end it there. Essentially we are equals and we would deal with it as equals.

However it is a completely different ball game when someone in government is offended by something you say. If a fight were to ensue as a result, it could never possibly be a fair one. Government, like I said earlier, is leviathan by virtue of their access to guns and money. And most importantly, the right to free speech can be taken away by imprisonment or generally harm being done to you.

So we come to decision time – given that we know that the freedom of speech is bound to offend someone, especially people in govt, and we also know that if an ordinary citizen were to get into a quarrel with the govt, it cant ever be an equal fight – is this right to free speech as well as a free press worth defending inspite of its potential to cause offence? Mr Madison thought it abslutely was.

Several years later, Mr Madison’s judgement was proved correct when two journalists, Bob Woodward and Carl Bernstein, took advantage of the press freedom rights to essentially bring down Richard Nixon with the Watergate scandal. Is it possible that Nixon could have been innocent of the allegations against him and those two journalists ended up tainting his name forever? The answer is it doesnt matter. What was more important was their right to investigate him and then write whatever allegations they had against him.

Now, I am not getting carried away here – Ms Ikeji is no journalist. She sells gossip on her blog for which there is apparently a huge market in Nigeria. She did not create this market, she merely, like any smart entrepreneur, saw the current when it served and took it before losing her ventures….to paraphrase the Bard.

Is Mr Mofe-Damijo’s house really worth N250m as she suggested on her blog? The answer, again, is that it doesnt matter. What is more important is that she has a right to publish it. Mr Mofe-Damijo is a government official and Ms Ikeji is a private citizen. She, like any other Nigerian, has a right to say what she hears or sees without fear of offending his feelings. Her right to say it, is far more important than the possibility that Mr Mofe-Damijo might get offended by it.

Nigeria is a country where 70% of all money in circulation is government related. A local government Chairman is capable of taking away a citizen’s rights not to talk of higher up the political chain like governors and senators. Every day government tramples on the rights of ordinary citizens not just by arrest or physical harm but by sheer evil policies that are designed to serve their own interests above those of everybody else. And come election time, they do all they can to take away the last right we have – the right to kick them out of office if we are unhappy with them – by rigging elections and manipulating our votes with the sheer array of powers they have at their disposal.

In this fight between we the citizens as David and the government as Goliath, the right to be able to say what we want about them is the one stone we have in our sling. The Nigerian government would never have invented blogging, twitter, facebook or the internet if it was down to them. You only need to look at the tight grip they maintain on NTA to understand how much this freedom of speech is able to offend those in power and how far they will go to curtail it.

I don’t know Ms Ikeji and I don’t care for her blog. Not because I don’t like gossip, I actually do, but I prefer political gossip as opposed to the ‘celebrity’ variety she peddles. This is a matter of personal taste. I read Guido Fawkes blog here in the UK to get gossip on what’s going on in the corridors of power in Westminster i.e. what you wont read in The Guardian or Daily Telegraph. The entire point of that blog is to offend politicians specifically Labour politicians as Guido is of course Tory leaning. There are equivalent blogs on the left attacking politicians on the right.

But if she somehow offends a government official, then I know where my loyalties lie, absolutely no questions. Because it isnt really about Ms Ikeji – there is no way you can make a law to stop a blogger from speaking freely that it wont be used for something else, this is the nature of government and what Mr Madison tried to guard against. Using a random example, when the UK government wanted to seize assets belonging to Iceland after that country’s banks collapsed in 2008, they used anti-terror laws to do it! Laws that were designed to protect citizens from terror attacks were somehow used to seize another country’s assets. Even though they were justified in seizing the assets, it goes to show what a government can do when it is determined to do it.

I hear Mr Mofe-Damijo is exploring ‘legal options’ against Ms Ikeji. I am desperately praying he does this. For one, it will help us know what is inside Nigeria’s libel laws which were no doubt written before the internet was invented. It is also a battle he cannot win. If he takes offence at his house being valued at N250m, not only will he need to prove that Ms Ikeji knowingly and deliberately overstated the value of his home, he will also need to tell us the real value. At that point it will then become a matter for the public to decide exactly how much is too much or too little for a Commissioner of his stature. In a land where 70% of the people are poor, your guess is as good as mine as to what will be an acceptable value for his house.

I think Mr Mofe-Damijo, as is typical with government officials in Nigeria, was being a bully. I also find it hard to believe that Mrs Ikeji deliberately overstated the value of his home to get page views. At the very worst, she’s guilty of not double checking her facts before publishing, a crime of which she is merely 1 in 1,000,000 guilty persons in Nigeria. But there’s nothing to say she wont learn or get better in future. I dont even blog regularly but over the years as I have gotten more people reading my posts, I have learnt to be a bit more accurate with my facts before publishing anything. It is what any normal person would do – the more readers you get, the more you are forced to be more responsible – and there is no evidence that Ms Ikeji is an abnormal person.

The road is long for Nigeria and we will only get there by winning small battles that broaden the power base in the country and create a system where we at least have a voice that government is forced to listen to. Anything else is a recipe for Why Nations Fail.

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  • Yetunde

    he’s truly a bully, why can’t he just tell us the value of his house instead of his long rant.

  • Ayo

    Well written! What is RMD even doing on twitter in the first place? Agbaya!!!

    • Moby

      So there’s an age limit on Twitter? I see…

    • Jarugie23

      what has age got to do with having a twitter account?

    • http://profile.yahoo.com/NUXQM7OQCR2FDPIUSY6YZGRT2I NAS

      hisssssssss,

  • Adenike

    Thanks so much Feyi!!!!! Spot on! He rushed to twitter to come threaten her – having been told twitter’s the best place for such. He’s nothing but a bully and trust me,that’s because Linda’s a female. TheNetNg sells gossip but no one cares, afterall it’s owned by a man. Would he have come on twitter to talk down at Ayeni? Nope.

  • Ranti

    How is he a bully? Everyone has the right to defend themselves against people they feel have wronged them. Your view is yours but i’m guessing majority of the populace will disagree with your post. Prima Donna? I would be worse if i thought my name was being compromised or tarnished for any reason whatsoever. Linda Ikeji? What a bloody joke.

  • awele

    some people surprises me that we ve freedom of speech dose not mean we should destroy people’s character and image just to sell news. The writter of this article got it all wrong. A man ve every right 2 defend himself and that was what RMD did. Linda’s blog have in the past been accused of inappropriate comment about high profile people so RMD is right in his tweet. Linda most times fabricate story that she has little idea of. You guys should wait untill she writes something about you or your family then you will tell if she is right or wrong. No problems in havin a blog but please verification is key

    • Chiomaolusola

      Awele and her likes. I’m a proud reader of Linda’s blog, and no, I’ve not met her and won’t go extra mile to do so! I’ll have you know that Linda’s blog wasn’t the first place I read about RMD’s Mansion so please spare her! Kilode? She’s not the only person that blogs but you guys won’t let her be! When she posted lovely pics of same RMD, why didn’t he go rant when people where singing his praises? Agbaya oshi!!!

  • Kemi

    Bully my foot. Abegi is it not the same Linda that has indirectly used her blog to “bully” people who have wronged her e.g Toke and Susan. Please Linda should get used to it. She is a blogger and people she writes about will sometimes react negatively the same way we expect these celebrities to get used to being bashed on her blog.

    • Bibi

      Where did Linda buly toke and susan peters? She posted a story on Susan’s BB torch,it was the real susan peters.Linda never put susan peters head on the body of the person holding the BB.The funniest thing is Linda wasnt even thep erson that posted it first,many websites had posted it same goes for this RMD story.A lot of blogs had posted b4 linda did but because Linda’s blog is more popular that’s why she get bashed.As for toke as at that time Toke and Linda brouhahah linda had never posted anything on toke except her flytime interviews.Toke mistook Laduliadi blog as Linda ikeji blog cos toke got bashed and meesed up on ladun blog.RMD just had guilty conscience hence rushing to twitter to defend the story.He doesnt want to get probed as delta state politician,hence trying to act all innocent.I read on a blog infact the image of the house was posted on that blog so RMD should chill

  • Ofili

    very very well written!

  • Duhhill

    Linda ikeji should bé very carefull with the stories she brings out…

  • Koabayashi1971

    I neither know nor care what RMD’s house is worth. But in connection with this article, one thing ought to be said: Ms Ikeji has the right to publish as she did; but she also has the responsibility to tell the truth, or at least not to knowingly publish a falsehood. It is all very well citing the First Amendment and so on and so forth. But – and as any halfway diligent final year law undergraduate would tell you – rights do not exist in a vacuum. They come with a concomitant responsibility. So, Ms Ikeji can say what she likes, but I imagine she has the capacity to back it up, if called upon to do so in a court of law.

  • Bill0705

    …who is this guy quoting 1st Amendment for??? Nigeria has a long way to get to that amendment and until then Gossip Columns shld just get the facts right so we avoid this kind of situation!!! Its easy to take sides depending on who we like more or less but is dat wat it shld really be about???? Dont blame RMD for trying to be protect himself before someone meks reference to Linda Ikeji’s blog and charges him wit embezzlement and all the associated issues. He probably has plans to continue acting and that would not be good for his image. Running a blog doesn’t give anyone to rite to publish watever he/she likes…the facts have got to be absolutely correct or else that would be having fun or making a career at someone else’s expense…not right!!

  • jase

    I am sure correcting Linda’s alleged wrong value of his mansion via his tweets would have laid
    rest to the many brouhaha. aren’t we more similar than the similar?
    I like the thoughtful piece though!.

  • Tilllwilly

    well said my brother.i think RMD shld just tell us the actual cost then we knw who is really over estimating.moreover he shld not forget he is serving the people so this no more a personal issue.he is a public figure who makes more from the public coffers

  • Ibusoroh

    Mr article writer, you certainly do like the sound of ur voice, don’t you? The way you went on and on….and on and on. I thot it would never end. I found this article enlightening don’t get me wrong, you just sounded a bit too egotistically high and mighty. We get it, you don’t care for Ms Ikeji’s blog, you definitely didn’t hide ur feelings there. Infct you mentioned it atleast 3 times. Almst felt like you were tryin to convince urslf (not us) that u don’t care for Ikeji’s blog.

    “….I read Guido ‘watshisname’ blog here in d UK”…. Really? Who cares whr u read the said blog. So certain blogs can only b read in the UK? ….No? Well, it sounded to me like thats wat u meant or perhaps I guess u think hintin as to ur location would impress your audience. Ok, I’m impressd (NOT!!).

    Word of advice, Try to sound less full of yourself when you write for public consumption. Definitely mks d article a tad more palatable. One thg though, atleast now I can’t forget that America’s Bill of Rights was written in 1789 and Madison was President btw 1809 and 1817. Kudos on that account.

  • Ismine

    My God! Who is this Feyi of a person?

    #1: the first amendment that you quoted, like any other statute of the USA, is for the USA. Why are you quoting it in the Nigerian context when Nigeria has her own constitution? The sense behind your US history lesson to discuss a Nigerian issue is, to borrow an American leaf from you, a whopping dollar short. A whole dollar o? For shame!

    #2: Just as Linda, or any other career gossip, has a right to take to the media and publish unsubstantiated gossip, forgetting that the onus is on them to do their due diligence; RMD has every right to defend himself. You sound ignorant when you say that being a public figure absolves him of that responsibility. Should he wait till it became a matter of the courts before trying to rebut it? And why should he tell you the value of his home? Are you looking to buy it or sell it for him? How is that your business? Again, if you feel you need to know, you have to burden to find out. A 1st year law student will tell you that: you should prove your case so that he can disprove it; he doesn’t have to prove the fact that you were too lazy to find.

    #3: So what if he explores legal options? Have you not heard of defamation of character? He should make a scape goat out of her. Too many career gossips out there desperate to earn a dollar but too lazy to do their research; giving diligent bloggers a bad name. No one is saying you shouldn’t make celebrity gossip your hallmark, but at least do a good job at it. While we are quoting our American brethrens, let’s quite MLK too: “If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweep streets even as Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or Shakespeare wrote poetry. He should sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will pause to say, here lived a great street sweeper who did his job well.” If Linda has been called to be a career gossip, she has to do it diligently and earn that Naira. Bella did it!

    And all those applauding Feyi and calling RMD agbaya for being on Twitter… stop exposing your ignorance. Is there an upper age limit for Twitter? I know there is a lower limit on Twitter, but I wasn’t aware of an upper limit too.